FORGIVENESS

WHY CAN'T WE FORGIVE!?

I often tell myself (@vega01) that when you live your life without anyone hurting, disappointing or offending you, then it means you never did anything worthy.

I want to tell you that their are so many people who are buried daily, and their crime is that someone they offended couldn't forgive them.
There are innocent orphans and street children out there whose crime is that someone didn't forgive their parents.

The reality is that even as you read this piece, there may be someone you have blocked on social media or you have decided not
to respond to his posts or messages. The person's crime is that he/she is naughty, broke your heart, disappointed you or said something
that really offended you.

You aren't talking to your roommate, an old friend, a family member, your Ex or that special friend because they offended you and you can’t
forgive them.

Yes, I understand they hurt you. He/she is
annoying, rude and not
worthy to be part of your life. However,
my questions are: Do you expect someone
to forgive you if you can't forgive others?
Do you think you have never offended
anyone before? The beauty of life is
that it comes with disappointments and
offences from people you least expect.
Unfortunately, some of us spend so much time on disappointments, offences and end up becoming victims of all circumstances.

Always remember : Holding on to anger is
like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Yes the world is full of annoying, naughty and ungrateful people. We will always come across them during the gentle stroll
of our life span, but the best thing to do is to deal with them with love and maturity.
All human are unique, you can’t get everyone
to behave like you Never, it's not possible!

Hatred and intolerance have caused many of the world's problems and have solved none!
We must learn to tolerate and forgive one another. We must bury the faults of others and
move on with life.

As you read this piece, I beseech you to take the pain and forgive that person you have grudges with and iron out your grievances. Master the courage and apologise to that person you
have offended. The clock is ticking, man is ageing, grave is calling and we
are not in charge. Life is short, you don't know how much time you have left. Live life
to Please God and to be a blessing to others