Are You Holding Yourself Back from Success
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Ever wonder how success seems to easily come to some people while others work their butt off and struggle their entire life? Is it because of the way they were brought up? Yes and No.
Some of us were brought up with parents who struggles and believed that you needed to work really hard and that money was scarce. When you are brought up with parents who believe such things and you hear them say “we can’t afford that” or “money doesn’t grow on trees” or “you have to work hard and struggle to get ahead” you start to believe it too. You hear it all the time when you grow up. When you ask for something it’s always the same answer, no, can’t afford it.
When you hear stuff like that your entire life you believe that is how it is for everyone. You work hard and struggle to get ahead. At some point you realize that you will never get ahead working crazy hours and frankly you don’t want to anyway.
This is what life is like for millions of people who just get by or are in debt so deep that they will never recover. What if I told you that those thoughts that you have been told and believe are not real. What if the only thing holding you back is the way you think. I know you must think this is crazy but wait a minute.
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What would your life be like if you believed without a doubt that money was easy to make and there was plenty of it to go around. How different would your life be if you knew that you will never be out of money and there is an abundance of money.
If you ever hire a coach or buy a course on how to make money, most of those courses start off with your mindset. Why? Because what you tell yourself everyday is more important than learning a new method to make money. When you get your mind right then money start showing up. When you are stuck with limiting beliefs then you’re stuck.
Two people can take the same class on how to make money and one will make lots of money while the other one will do nothing or try for a day and then complain it doesn’t work. The only difference is mindset, if you believe you can then you are right and if you believe you can’t then you are right also.
Your beliefs are the biggest obstacle to your success. There is no lack of information, it’s everywhere, freely available in books at the library or online. You can be an expert in almost anything if you spend time reading and applying what you learn.
Authors are sharing all their years of experience in books and all we must do is read the book and we know the same thing the author does without all the years of trial and error.
The problem is the way you think and if you start to believe you can do anything and take action everyday wonderful things will start happening. It might be small changes at first such as just thinking like anything is possible and feeling more optimistic. That is how it all starts, feeling better and then being inspired to learn something new or take small steps to improving your situation.
I truly believe that anyone can be wealthy no matter what kind of childhood you had or if you are homeless. The possibilities are endless, and it has already been done by so many before who were no better or smarter than you. The only person holding you back is YOU.
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To Your Success
I Am Free Spirit
I heard people say if your dad is poor, it's not your fault, but if your father-in-law is poor, it's your fault. lol....
Just kidding :)
Yes, there are lots of content online. You can learn anything you want. It's up to you to take advantage of this and do something.
yes it really is up to us, thanks for your comment.