LOVE YOUR NEIGHBORS AS YOURSELF AND NOT INFLICTING PAIN ON ONESELF

SOMETIMES WE REALLY WANT OTHER PEOPLE TO BE SATISFIED WHILE WE LEAVE OUR OWN SELF UNSATISFIED

Sometimes we want to be a blessing to different people and this causes damages and harms to our-self

Sometimes we don't want people to say bad things about us and we leave our self internally wounded

The act of making people to believe in us, making people to love us by force by going wounded and harm is FOOLISHNESS to God and to man
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Jesus said LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR ACCORDING TO YOURSELF NOT LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR WITHOUT LOVING YOURSELF
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Can you now see it foolishness to want to satisfy others people while leaving your own-self unsatisfied

The word says Love yourself first then do same thing to your neighbor

Trying to say yes to everyone and leaving yourself Harmed waste time and it kills GOALS AND DREAMS
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Everyone will want to be your friend

Everyone will love to hear from you, To seek advice from you
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But when you try to Say NO to some of this things they see you as an ENEMY, they see you as BAD PERSON right ?
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But that's Okay ( let them see you that way) It is better for them to see you as a bad person today than to KILL YOUR GOALS AND DREAMS because of those things

Because attaining your goals and dreams is what they really care about

Remember No one cares about you, In fact Nobody cares about your GOALS, DREAMS OR destiny

People only cares about your ACCOMPLISHMENT

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SAY NO TO SOME OF THOSE THINGS AND BE BOLD ABOUT IT ( IT NOT A SIN)
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If you fail woefully they don't bother about you again

They only care about your Accomplishment

Rise higher and be wise in DESTINY
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Some of those things you don't want to say No to because you don't want to offend them can kill and wound your destiny (Did they mind ? )
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No ! after a couple of sorry and greetings. all is well

So you got to be really wise with everything you do
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Don't forget "LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR ACCORDING TO YOURSELF ( THE FIRST THING IS TO LOVE YOURSELF THEN LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR ACCORDING TO HOW YOU LOVE YOURSELF ) image

You should have learn a whole lot if you 've been following me from the beginning

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