WHO SAYS YOU CAN'T HAVE IT ALL?

in #motivation6 years ago

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Have you ever found yourself stuck when trying to make a decision or try something in your life?

You know that uncomfortable feeling of wanting to do or be something, but at the same time, being afraid to lose something.

If you do, it's probably that you have consciously or unconsciously an "OR" mentality.
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You want to make more money, but you think you'll lose your free time.

You want a marriage partner, but you think you'll lose your friends.

We keep fighting in our heads about choice A or B - hence, we stay stuck.

Usually this fear of "loss" is just anticipated or imaginary because of the "OR" mentality.

We've been conditioned to believe that two good things CAN'T come at the same time.

You CAN'T have wealth AND love.
You CAN'T have a good health AND a successful career.

Get rid of this mentality and embrace the "AND" mentality. Know that you can have this AND that not either this OR that.

It's all about balance. Remind yourself that you deserve to have all the good things that life has to offer.

Yes, you can have it all.

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This has really motivated me...we all have to develop the "AND" mentality, having the "OR" mentality just robs us of all the good things we could have and we have to practice how to get things balanced because it's not a one-day thing, it's a continuous process that will eventually develop into a habit. This post is really helpful. Thanks and keep steeming!

Thanks for reading through. Cheers!

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