'I gave money to money on love, then ...

There are many problems in human life which are never called. The opportunity to say does not even match. There are some problems that do not even have to be in front of everyone. Such fears and social restrictions have to be told not to say the difficulties of the mind. Here are some things that have been shared in my life, a girl unwilling to disclose names. Bridal experts want to tell everyone about the experience.

The young woman wrote, I was about 20 years old in the middle. The wedding in the family began to think a little differently. Otherwise, maybe not. All the girls might think that. With whom the life will go forward as a fairy tale. This country will travel around the country. Do not look at the price at the time of shopping. There will be lots of money. There is no tension. I got married with one son and I got married.

After the marriage, the first year really has been dreamed like a dream. We visited 7 countries. My wardrobe was full of expensive costumes. There were different brands of bags or shoes. I did not think twice before buying something. It seemed as if my thoughts were truly a blessing.

After that, the new understanding was coming in front of us. We quickly realized that we are no different than ten couples. The two sought-is different. My relationship with her in-laws was not good at all. Gradually, the dispute with her husband was becoming horrible at one stage. There was another problem with her husband. She did not want my parents to come to see the girl. I did not even allow my father to go home.

Gradually I started to be a stranger in my home. I go to different parties, shopping, doing homework. But we both started to understand that there is no deep relationship between them. The luxury of bustling around me But I became a Kangal to get her love. Our children also came in the world. The husband's business travel often became frequent. At one time he spent most of the time outside the country. Illness would have started when talking about it.

We both loved the kids very much. He was aware of raising children. But I do not judge him at the luxurious standard. A child was arranged to teach his parents outside the country. But on the admission day I got to know it. The husband blamed me if the little boy did not get good results in the school.

At one point, I realized that this life has survived as a married life. It is nothing but a rule of social rules. Socially we think of happy families. But in reality nothing has happened. It was also a rare event for us to sit together as well. I became compelled to live with the rules and I was forced to live. Not even friends Because everyone is busy with their family.

But when I look back in the past, I understand where the mistake was. I gave space on the place of love, money. I thought, this one penny is able to solve all the problems of life. But Aza is constantly scattering me on this misconception. Luxury life can give you comfort and comfort. But if you can not share your life with someone, it is meaningless. I understand so Even though these old words. But I'm too late to understand.
Source: Times of India