Try to Set an Example by Being and Not Preaching...
Hi, Steemians!
Some people with aspiring outlooks can see a lot of things that are wrong with the world today.
This can bother them to the point of becoming irritable and hard to please.
These people have a very different time adjusting to the reality of things and are constantly looking for ways with which they can change the situation of things or people in their place of living or work.
How can you actually approach change when you know that something is wrong?
If you successfully avoid the trap of tyranny and the urge to impose your will unto others, then you will have two options to approach change.
The first one is to be an example of something better, and the second is to talk to others and convince them of your so-called better way.
But there are some things to consider before you start your pursuit of change in the madness of an uncontrollable world.
It has been often said and widely debated that preaching has a reverse psychological effect on the people who are exposed to it.
And that is to some degree, understandable.
First of all, you should understand that we all have our inner voice of reason.
That is to say that we are already capable of logically assessing every situation without needing pep-talks or other words of advice.
That is why people get irritated when you start preaching to them.
The person who is telling them the words of wisdom is exactly like their inner voice that they wish to ignore, out of being overly sentimental.
The other important aspect of preaching is that the world is full of people who always have something to say.
There is also much deceit and treachery in the nature of words.
That is not to say you may be perceived as a liar or someone unreliable, but to indicate that words have lost their value and meaning in the modern world.
But setting an example by being something or achieving a vision of value is still effective.
In a world with people who tend to look down on others, your words of wisdom may be seen as something other than purely honest or beneficial.
But showing other people another path by committing to it can do wonders. If you want to see actual change, commit to your ideas and be the change you wish to see in society.
Otherwise, you should know that everyone is able to talk.
Everyone can talk about being a hero, but few people are heroes.
Anyone can talk about success, but few people are actually successful.
Everyone can speak of goodwill and fantastic characteristics, but few people have those qualities.
Pointing fingers can never solve anything. If you want change, be the first one to attempt it.
If you want to show other people a different path, do not preach to them.
Show them the path by walking down that path and proving your point.
This is the only effective way to change society on a large scale!
A BIG HUG!
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Hello,
pointing with fingers on someone doesn't change anything.
For example when I invite someone to join Steemit, I show them my action, what I post, how I interact and which people I follow.
New starters on Steemit often don't believe they can earn some money here, so I always show them my first cash outs, how I exchanged them to other coins and send them with blocktrades to my local bitcoin exchange, changed to fiat and send it on my bank account.
Of course I introduce them #Partiko now as well.
I show them my own actions on Steemit, and it works.
Have a beautiful Sunday
Tom
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The influence I have been able to gain in my professional career has been through “leading by example.” It has been a great experience to often participate in groups where planning is well thought but execution depends on the leadership to demonstrate the needs to reach success. It is bery fulfilling when achieve as many grow and continue to lead other projects with that example.
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Greetings @newageinv.
Every project planned and directed with leadership reaches an excellent term. The more people who participate in this type of activity, the more they will learn the benefits of working organized and following the right leaders. For big fish in Steemit, keep working, since there will be many small fish following them.Those SJWs that plagues the internet nowadays need to read this.
I’m a great believer that parents should follow this advice, great post mate. Today’s kids will not stand to be preached at and will say to their parents “but you do that!” and the old fashioned answer to this is to say “Do as I say and not as I do”. This does not work in a modern world so parents need to be vigilant about setting an example for their children and they will naturally follow. This should also work in society because perople will follow the ways of those they love and respect just as kids do. Great inspiration post 🙏
Every body want to change but real facts fath and way decided decision a right way is most important.
Thanks for sharing your experience and knowledge.
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Saludos @chbartist
excelente publicación. Muchos pensamos que conocemos la verdad, que por las experiencias que hemos vivido han generado el conocimiento necesario para cambiar el mundo. Pero en el mundo no estamos solos, el mundo lo compartimos con muchas otras personas, y debemos unificar criterios con las demás personas si queremos implementar nuestros criterios. Para poder generar y concretar una iniciativa, primero debemos ser lideres, ganar la confianza de los demás a través de los hechos, y luego construir el colectivo de personas que, trabajando en equipo, lograra cumplir lo planteado Los seres humanos tendemos a vivir en tribu, y en toda tribu debe haber un líder. Queremos ser lideres, preparemos nuestra actitud y aptitud para afrontar el reto.Because of my nature as a person with gifts for teaching, I used to live advising all those people who acted contrary to what I considered right. I did this until I understood that each person must live their own experience and I do not have the absolute truth. Now I only give advice to those who somehow ask for it.
Greetings @yahe
We are energy, and if we give up a lot of energy we exhaust ourselves In order to maintain a personal balance we must develop our activities in an environment that promotes the growth of all members; An example would be an ecosystem where everyone gives and receives in the most balanced way, where there are no parasites that make the life of the ecosystem sick. We must build relationships that promote the growth of all those involved, being leaders and following excellent leaders.В наше время вообще сложно быть спокойным. Ведь ненависть, зависимость, вражда, недоверия. Все это окружает нас и не избавится от этого. Как бы мы не хотели и это печально. Ведь было бы лучше если бы люди жили с природой в одной стороне. И никогда никто не ругался. Только многие забыли про действительно важные качества. Ведь сейчас все смотрят на деньги и за ними гонятся и совсем пофиг на людей.
So is. We must be the example of what we speak, actions say more than mere words. With the mouth you can do everything, The words leave with the wind, but the actions do remain, they are the best sample of what we preach. If you say that you love, prove it, if you say you want to help, prove it, if you say that you are going to leave a vice, prove it ... otherwise they will be just words ...
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