The Most Destructive and Obstructive Human Tendency...
Hi, dear Steemians!
In this post, I want to talk to you about the most destructive characteristic of the human race that is always keeping us from reaching peak efficiency and achieving the things that we were destined to achieve!
In today’s society, it is difficult to find people who have graced themselves with a state of peace and tranquility. We are always stressed out about things that had nothing to do with us and we are always regretful of our own life decisions.
These feelings and sensations have crippled us to the point of forgetting who we are as a species, and what we are supposed to do with our precious lives.
Our time on this planet is limited. We are born, we live, and we eventually die. Against the preciousness of time rises an enemy that wishes us to forget what we are supposed to do with the chances that are given to us.
This enemy is the human tendency to overdramatize everything that happens to them. They try to search for meanings or understandings where there is none to be found.
Something happens across the world and we start to feel desperate.
An occurrence disturbs the balance of our life, but being the overdramatizing creatures that we are, we start to unnecessarily make an issue out of something we could have easily dealt with if we wanted.
This is not to say that we should suppress our feelings or do not give them any validation. But we should always draw boundaries and make sure that our voice of reason is adequately equipped to deal with a situation properly and without falling into the trap of despair.
Our inner tendency to overdramatize can cripple us at every opportunity. The more you learn about this world, and the more you use your logic to assess everything, the easier you will deal with your problems.
We should at least try to see the world from beyond our puny perspectives. Every now and then, we could close our eyes and see the ever-growing universe by standing near the stars that give it light.
Beyond good and evil, beyond pitiable needs and matters, beyond our emotions and values, we can see the universe in its truest form, and there we will find the meaning of existence.
Our habit to overdramatize everything that happens to us or try to find deeper meanings and emotions in small troubles will only lead us to a life of despair and conscious reluctance.
Do not needlessly magnify your problems. For every problem, there is a solution. For every closed door, there is a key. You just have to work up the courage to find that solution and key.
Whenever faced with a dilemma, try to think about it with your logic and voice of reason.
What would be better than being able to conquer life with the power of thought bestowed to you?
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
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Excelente post amigo @chbartist, sería bueno conquistar el mundo con las pocas herramientas que nos dan, pero nunca es suficiente, siempre hay que seguir innovando y estar a la vanguardia con todo pero para lograr grandes cosas, siempre hay que estar en positivo, alejar los pensamientos malos, las personas toxicas y de seguro nos va ir mejor y seremos mejores seres humanos, lo felicito de parte de @jorge090202 desde Venezuela un abrazo.
An excellent overview @chbartist and you are right, human nature unfortunately is such that we sometimes enter a state of drama. The problems and difficulties that have arisen on our way, as well as errors in solving them, can subject us to condemn our actions and it seems to us that life stops, but only we can understand that we need to get rid of this quality forever and boldly try acting again our thinking!
I am a believer of the thought that human if want, can conquer and overcome any thing. but in a very positive mindset for sure. I agree from your point of view that most of the times we tend to magnify the issues we have and the problems we face instead we should work upon the solution. Definitely a good lesson to learn here.
keep inspiring us with amazing content.
Of course, we must use the life met by God in the right way.All the creatures in the world have to stay here for a limited time.In all the beings, man is the only creature who can use his discretion properly,If man contemplates self, his conscience paves his path.
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Emotional suppression has negative effects, as exercise of restraint often depletes the capacity for attention, resulting in low performance in tasks involving reflection and learning.
Higher levels of self-repression were associated with depression during a 4-6 week period with worsening symptoms of depression, making many consider suppressing feelings ineffective, increasing stress and anxiety, and leading to increased health problems.Often, individuals are angry because they misinterpret someone else's intentions, and then discover that their anger was in vain. Disappointment ideas may disappear if we try to see the world brighter.
Assessing the situation in a new way does not suppress negative emotions, but makes you feel more positive.
Dear @chbartist
Often things we do not know much about, we are interested in the same things human tendency or always are eager for new things and much effort for those things which do not mean anything to us always harmful it occurs. Before the beginning of any work, the negative feelings arising in our minds that we do not fail anywhere, give us astray from that goal. We unknowingly make our goal difficult. These things that prove to be harmful to our lives. Conquering these means to get the key to success
Thank you for your positive mindset
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Oh yes @chbartist, I completely agree with you that by dramatizing events and actions in our life we do very great harm to ourselves and to the cause we are doing. On our way to our goal, there will be many difficult moments and we need to courageously overcome them not feeling anything without regret, because luck is a great reward for our courage!
Such an informative post I'm totally agree with you. Human nature is really strange we get stuck in small problems and never want to get out we are just believing that we are in big trouble but that is not the point. As a human being we have to think beyond the things we have done. It is necessary to be face our problems according to their size men's we don't have to over react.
This has led me to much success over the years as those close always seek to follow the calm in the eye of the storm. I have been able to look past the “noise” that situations create to find solutions when working with teams often. This has led to focus and execution in achieving goals in theb ong run.
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I agree. I have always thought procrastination was on the same level too.
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