The Mistake of Giving Validity to Your Life’s Extras....
Hello, dear Steemians!
An important part of success is how much validity you give to the storm of voices surrounding you.
You have all been to watch a movie in your lifetime at least once. Can you remember one of those experiences you had with a film? Films take us to a fictional world inhabited by many colorful and believable characters.
These characters all have their own dilemmas, be it small or big, and they all have a purpose and something they move forward to achieve.
Let me pique your memory a little further. Have you actually paid attention to all of those characters? Or have you simply focused on the journey of the protagonists? When we see a film’s credit, there are numerous roles that are practically unnamed.
Cap Driver No. 1, Police Officer No. 2, Firefighter etc. are all the extras of the story of our life. Unfortunately, most of us are usually preoccupied about what the Cap Drivers think of what we do and how we do it, and we allow their judgements and sense of opinion to cloud our own logic and determination.
Do not let somebody be a priority when you are an option to them. Their opinions do not determine how you should live your life. Everyone lives in a thought bubble and they tend to think the world is as they think about it.
That is not true. The world is not what other people say it is. The world, and more importantly your life, is what you make of it.
This is not to say that you should be resistant or reluctant towards advice or good counsel. But do not let their mere opinions find a place in your mind and sit as true and nonnegotiable facts.
“You cannot do that! You cannot be that! There is no way you can pull that off! You will never be worthy of anything! You must change the way you see the world! Life is not as you see it! You are mistaken with your worldview! You are wrong!’
These are all the sentences that rage against the barricade of your mind. These are the negative surges of energy sent forth by the storm that doesn’t want you to succeed.
Most people are content with their own misery and tend get used to it, and they would sooner see you get used to that same wretchedness than try to understand your original and innovative point of view or your ambitions and your unlikely dreams.
Do not let these extras have a say in how you see the world or how you live your life.
As a wise person once said, ‘You are not the opinion of someone who doesn’t know you.’
Resist against the raging storm of negativity that might surround you in our human society and strive for greatness, as it has always been your one and true destiny.
A BIG HUG!
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Important Note!
I have been working very hard on this blog since the beginning. I have a very busy life but I am giving my best and believe me I have shared experiences that I have been coaching thousands of people and I know that the change of the Mindset should be daily. I am already grateful to see you giving upvotes to each other and you can see this with the fact that many already have 8, 9, 10 upvotes. But I'm sure that with the effort of all of us we will see a community with, 40, 50 upvotes and for that everyone should get engaged so we can make it come true. I believe and we can! Resteem...
***Remember Community: Please, if you commented and upvote on a new post I did, please always go back to the previous one because if someone in the community commented lastly because of time zone differences it will be without your upvote and that would not be fair.
You all know the goal! We can reach: 50+ Upvotes each others!
Attention!!!
I'm reading all the meaningful comments from the posts.
I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
You will receive my upvote in all material and brief comments I will do this in all the posts I am following very closely and I can see what the people who are generous and contribute to this legacy that I am trying to build with all of you can become reality in a short time.
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First of all, I would like to thank all of you, who are the most active and proactive in this community, showing your generosity and always with meaningful comments. From now on I will always make a list of these incredible people who have helped to expand our goal of growing ever more.
But I ask that if you are new around here you read many of the previous posts because they make it clear that we are building a community with respect among all, generosity and this blog is for those who really want to start moving their Mindset to positive and moreover be part of the growth of all of us who contribute to this blog. Please do not ask to include you in the list if you are just wanting upvotes because we want here people genuinely attuned to growth and good attitudes and as I have always said with Respect as the basis of all, generosity and positivity!
ABOUT OUR LIST!!! WE NEED GROW THIS LIST! LET'S GO TOGETHER IN THIS COMMUNITY - RESTEEM!
Feel free if you want to be included in the list of contributors to this community. Just ask at the end of your comment.
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Thanks All of You!!!!
Excellent review @chbartist and you are right, on our way to success we meet a lot of people and a lot of opinions about and what we do, but we need to learn how to understand these opinions, when we need to weed out all negatives and positively accept it would be easier for us to achieve our dreams!
Dear @chbartist sir
Every day new ideas are born in this imaginative brain. Some are inspired by the surrounding environment, some are motivated by theater world. But is not it necessary that things apply in our lives? Are we influenced by things that happen around us? In fact, we find things in everything that do the work of inspiration in our lives, they help us to move forward. Mistake and error are a part of human life, we have to adjust ourselves in these circumstances. We try to imitate some people, trying to imitate them as ideal people. These things give legitimacy in our lives that affect us and our surroundings.
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Friend, pay attention in your upvotes! Because I can believe that you voted in a negative disrespectful person in this community. Regards
Of course I have mistaken, now corrected it. Although I read comments then upvote. I have seen two or three negative activities before this post and your hundred percent negative vote on their comments.So I am aware about such kinds of people but I have mistaken.
I apologize you sir for my mistake.
Thank you
It's a mistake to agree with someone who dares criticize the actions of @chbartist? How so?
Calling reasoned dissent "negative disrespect" merely betrays the depth of your own vanity and sophistry. And that is truly disrespectful.
There are people who like to manage the lives of others, and there are people who let themselves be influenced by them, without fully living their lives making their own decisions, that is to live the life of another, because they do not live their experiences, but rather of others, as others want.
Sir it is damn sure that movies can be fictional but they put up lot of experiences and inspire you , in reel life or life always you will familiar with some character who inspires you . In world many mind many find but you have to listen that what is important for you . Always we should listen all opinions but should act with own review . Nice @chbartist
THANKS!
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It is good to listen to advice, but what is not good is to let others tell you how to live your life. You have to enjoy your own experience taking into account the advice that will really help you grow.
Excellent topic for reflection. Since we are children, we listen to opinions, advice, suggestions and criticism, in our homes and schools. We respect them because they are our parents and teachers. But even worse is that we give value to the opinions of friends and even those who do not know us or do not care. And we try to please them, wanting to be accepted socially. This denotes insecurity and low self-esteem. Life is unique and belongs to us. There are moments to experiment, define what we want and allow us to enjoy our successes and admit mistakes.
Best regards.
Excellent review! I enjoyed reading this, really!
The reality is we can't be true all the time. We could not underestimate also the outside force that influence us.
But, its our final decision to decide because we have our free will.
Trusting ourselves too much is not really that good enough.
As if we're creating our own universe which I believe idolizing ourselves as creators and gods.
And we become less sensitive to the needs of others because all we do is for our own interests and benefits.
That’s a significant statement about how we orient our lives. Great thoughts!
Good one sir @chbartist.
If people don't have their opinions about you, then you probably don't exist! So we need to embrace the fact that opinions will definitely come but we have the choice to think twice about this opinions or discard them totally. Instead of breaking down because of one bad comment, we should rather work on ourselves to become better. Negative comments highlight mistakes and weak links and hence should be used as a means of achieving excellence and perfection.
Not all comments deserve a second thought or even an immediate response from us, they are just meant to be ignored and used as stepping stones to excellence and perfection.
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