If You Want Success, Allow Yourself to Fail More!!!
Hello again, dear Steemians!
The thing that most people get wrong about failure is that it is not permanent, much different to despair that can taunt your life forever.
Failure is like a sharp blade that can cut you down in a second, but you will always be able to rise back up on your feet and move on with your goals.
Despair is more like a blunt dagger that constantly stabs you but does not quite have the power to fully take you down.
That is why your mind is mingled with despair, and as a result, you fail to reach peak efficiency and productivity in your tasks and goals.
Do not fear failure. If you want success, you need to give yourself the opportunity to fail more.
Is that too strange to hear?
Well, let me tell you how I think about failure and then you will see that everything you know about the world is the product of your own ideas about it.
First of all, I never see failure as defeat. Failure is, for me, much more like a sense of added wisdom and experience. You know the famous saying: We learn more with our failures than our success.
When you find success, you celebrate, but when you reach failure, you think. That is why failure is the greatest teacher of all.
People nowadays take failure way too seriously. They cannot even comprehend the possibility that they might fail, and that is why failure becomes a burden to their dreams and ultimately pushes them down.
When you read the life story of successful people, you realize that they have failed many times before eventually finding their breakthrough. Success does not only experience, but it can also help you grow to be a much better person.
When you are facing failure or going through tough times, see it as a spark that can grow your character into something you could not have imagined in a million years.
‘Old roots are not reached by the frost’ goes the old saying, and that is exactly the fruit of failure. You grow old and wise, and then no single storm of any measure can topple you or put you down.
One other thing that you should understand about failure is that it will always show you the right path. When you fail for once, you earn experience.
But when you fail several times, you will begin to see the right course of action and a path that will lead you to success.
By merely believing in the process of elimination, the idea that if you eliminate many possibilities, you will eventually find the right one, we can claim that failure will show you the true path in the end.
A person who is stuck in a maze has a difficult time to find his way out at the beginning. But if he is clever, he will somehow create signs and keep tracks of the paths that he has walked before, and thus he will eliminate his choices and eventually finds his way out of the maze.
If you truly desire success, do not be afraid of failure. Learn how to fail more, and even try to fail more!
Only by learning how to fail and get yourself back up on your feet can you find success at the end of the road.
It all goes back to your mindset and how you see failure, because contrary to popular opinion, failure is never a setback, but a liberator that can give you what you want!
A BIG HUG!
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I am here making a list of all of you who have helped build this community by voting for each other who write meaningful comments and soon I will respond to everyone with comment and thank you all because I can already see this spirit being built in this Positive Mindset community and help between all of you.
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Failure requires a renewed strength and will to multiply. The first time was your will and your strength at its height, but after the fall it changes, we feel as if everything has fallen with us, but this does not negate that we can rise again and it is not too late. First, it is impossible to rise and continue on your way with the same ideas, so long as your thoughts and data are the same, the outcome will not necessarily change, renew your thoughts, develop yourself to reach your goal. Second, all of us are bent on continuing whatever difficulties we face. , To stop does not mean that the pain ends, standing will make your pain and feeling Double failure, no matter how you looked difficult or impossible to continue, endure the pain and continued to fall circus, will inevitably, success hates the weak cowards, defeatists, the success of the Champions League and the only tournament that biased on yourself and bear the pain and continue your way.
Totally agree
Very well said 🤗😊
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Totally agree with you . As they say, mistakes are learned. In the end, everything will turn out. Thanks for the motivation
also agree
If we meet every failure with enthusiasm, we will certainly succeed. Thanks for the motivation and kind words
Thank you @chbartist a painful failure shows you that there is no hope of standing again, no way out of this black circle, and that you have missed so much that you will not be able to see. Well, all these negative images are created by your mind to stay in your place. , In insisting on staying in the comfort zone, to defeat again in your battle against failure, so; get off these ideas and start again, the correct definition of failure that you tried but your attempt did not affect this time, try and .. Do not stop trying to Reach
Life is a real battle, everyone struggles, runs, tries nonstop, there is someone who struggles with others, there are those who struggle with certain things, but the eternal battle that never ends and does not stop is your battle with yourself, with your failure, with your fears. In which all efforts will be made to emerge victorious, here we will struggle together, our failure, we will face it with all the strength and will, so that we fall to the ground, in only 5 steps to emerge victorious in your battle against failure.
Oh yes @chbartist, an interesting review and you are right to truly achieve victory, we all go through failure and how we feel about failure and our achievements will depend!
Failure is not your end. In the Bible we find several examples of people who failed, despite having all the conditions to succeed. But let me refer to a particular character.
Samson, the Failure of a Hero.
In Judges chapter 16 we find the shameful story of Samson and Delilah.
As you know, Samson was a Hebrew man who was appointed by God to lead his country, Israel, to victory against the Philistines. For this, the Lord endowed Samson with extraordinary physical strength, something like a Hercules or a superman. The strength of this subject was really extraordinary; however, he had a weakness: He let himself be seduced by the sensual pleasure of the opposite sex. In other words, failure was at the door of this man's life. And in fact, the Bible does not hesitate to mention that Samson fell into a state of shameful fornication even for our times: Delilah, a lovely young Philistine led him to the point of breakdown, fall and total sin. Yes my friends, the Bible tells us that Samson failed in his mission to liberate Israel, Samson failed despite initially having the support of God, his family, his countrymen.
What I mean by this is: The Bible speaks of men and women who failed, but it also speaks of the love of God that forgives and restores.
How many of us here have experienced the pain of failure? I'm sure there are people in this community who have experienced the pain of failure in their marriage, failure with their children, failure in their company or business, failure in their studies, failure in their personal lives. Hey, I have also failed! But something I tell you: In his perfect will God uses our failure as a second chance to succeed in life, how many believe it?
Failure is an Opportunity to Grow.
Each failure teaches man something he needed to learn (Charles Dickens, British writer).
Failure is sometimes more fruitful than success (Henry Ford, American industrialist).
Failure fortifies the strong (Antoine de Saint, French writer).
The Bible tells us that no matter how many times we fail, God will always be willing to rise up, God will always be there to help us.
Thanks @chbartist.
Very great post.So you said exactly that failure plays a very roll, in my success, it is not necessarily because we stop once after failure. But rather than failure, your mistakes should be trying to continue to understand.You said exactly that the frustration is like a dhabel but it does not have so much strength that we can remove from our goals.
Thanks for sharing.
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yes
What fascinates me most then is why some people have this in abundance, an unwavering commitment to success which is only inspired by failure, while others lose this willingness or become scared to experiment.
Recognition, realisation or admittance of an error when it has occurred then is the essential necessity of enabling future successes to occur. Identifying an error when it occurs allows you to break free of closed loop failure leading to new potential solutions.
Embracing failure as a part of the process which leads to achieving unprecedented success is difficult. It is even more challenging to ignore the noise that accompanies repeated failure. The constant chatter, criticism and insults can be paralysing. Overlooking this derision and fighting your way to success is the only way you can achieve anything of significance.
Success and failure are inexplicably linked. Successful failure can be measured in actions and what you have learned whereas failure without action leaves the possibility of regret.
I can openly confess I’m afraid to fail, but I am for more afraid that I will fail to accomplish anything of significance. Failure is not a sign that your ideas are doomed but is a necessary step toward success.
Incredible @chbartist ...!!!
Hello Chbartist we have all these people who have sent all these special resolutions who decided they're gonna do all these great things over the next 12 months how many of you have already skipped a workout or do the extra things that you said you were gonna do think about all the people that say man one day if I have this I'm gonna do this do you mean if you have this why don't you go out and make it happen if you keep stick to something for five days you deserve to have a shitty life we're talking about 50 years we're talking about the five years it probably takes to build something worthwhile we're gonna talk about the five months they could take for you to lose a hundred pounds we're talking about five days and you can't even stick to it for that so what the do you think you deserve you deserve exactly what you need that's the things your friends won't tell you when you're picking and moaning about how your life sucks on Friday night drinking a brewski with your boys your mom won't tell you when you're sitting in your mom's basement playing video games when you should be reading or approving or working out or doing something everybody likes the idea success but going out and building a plan backwards from that point that you want to be and going through the day to day to day actions of building that you don't love that idea you like the idea of success as long as it's easy as long as it doesn't take dedication as long as it doesn't take you having to do things that you don't feel like doing when you don't feel like doing them success is grind success is work and success is executed on a day-by-day basis this dance is gonna sky No you are gonna to work there's no magic formula or sweat list solution by which one can achieve their goals there is no shortcut there is no happy you're gonna have to work stop rationalizing stop making excuses tell yourself the truth so that you can get you should be what you do what you know you should do when you pay attention to the little things when you implement true and unflinching and unmitigated discipline in your life when you allow no easy excuses and all that starts when you stop lying to yourself when you tell yourself the truth about where you are so you can make sure you are in the right place and if you're not in the right place that you can give yourself on the path to get there the path of discipline the path of hardwork