Consciousness | Infinite potential trapped by Fear

We have a large potential to use, almost infinite, unfortunatly the most of us use a small part of it. The Fear builds a wall of limits around us, it traps us and force us to be rational: the classic 1+1 is always 2. That fits perfectly in Math, but i’m sure that many of you know that life is also instinct, dreams, small and large miracles. As i said before, we need to believe, face our intimate fears, and let it go.

Coincidences could guide us, then we start to perceive them as connections, at last we believe that they are purely our choices, born in deep of our souls. Meditation and Yoga are the only, and exellent, instruments that shape our lives, step by step we become masters of ourselves, thanks to calm and centering.

Am i afraid to a proposal? I risk to “avoid” a love story, in the worst case, i learn that there is no chance, and move on towards future possibilities. Am i afraid to change my Job, even if i hate it? This perseverance, makes me suffer, and become sick; it also consume my chance to knock infinite doors until someone would open it for me. I stuck my full potential, because the Fear show me just the past failures. If you learn from your past, you may eventually evolve, gain new energies and make it your key to success.

Try to remember your childhood: we were all fearless, leaded by curiosity, a keen instinct, pure joy in everything we did, in searching, in sharing, in learning, we lived the miracles of everyday. Parents are often responsable of the very first distorsion, the first contact with fear in child, subsequently the institutions in the broad sense. An oppressive subjective education from a parent, even if moved by pure love for a son, is a concrete danger during the growth.

Immagine the child as a sponge, pure, virgin, as we know he learns with astonishing rapidity, condition that will fade out during growth. I’m not here to say that all parent are in wrong or suggesting to leave children like cows grazing, or even better according the energy that characterizes them, like lions in the savannah. We live in a society, made of laws and rules, alas, therefore necessarily urgent basic education. But the important nuances of the character should be left free to evolve and the creativity of the child free to fly at 100 % . Here we speak of objective freedom that become subjective, freedom of expression , motor freedom , freedom to do , freedom to fail ; think about the miracle that is manifested in the freedom to make mistakes!

The opening photo is very precious for me, it’s my mom’s favorite and she guards it jealously in the family album. In that photo i can see all my purity, i had blond curls, now i need to shave my head to maintain a certain charm and to not seem too bald. I also notice my creativity, the curiosity, the amazement in my eyes; the freedom and semplicity to get dirty with blu color, spreading it everywhere. I see the Andrea that I also want to be as an adult today, we need to keep alive the child in us, always existing deep in the soul.

A child is hyper sensitive, like when he learns to ride a bicycle. For example, he falls and maybe cries but he will keep going, He falls again but in the meantime has been able to ride for a few meters, soon they’ll become kilometers. Parents support him during the first rides, but they won’t do any good by scolding and/or criticizing him; being overprotective when the baby falls to the ground makes him unsafe and not inclined to try again. You should not grow insecurities.

So with a little support and good advice the child will start to ride alone, we’ll be pleased by this, the fears related to the first falls will be removed and will remain in his memory just as life lessons.
Any activity preferred by your child through the childhood needs confidence and freedom, support and admiration; sometimes support and good advice will be useful to the choice of a high school or university, a course or an artistic, but even here the impositions and the criticism must be kept out, we are all magically different, beautifully inimitable.

If you feel final, desperate, and you seem to be in the darkest period of your life you will realize that you’re not laughing anymore, you have lost the simple happiness that you had as a child. But the inner child is still there, never dies, maybe you’ve hit bottom and is now resurrected and start to dream. It ”s time to go back to childhood.<<<