Thanks for the compliment, but it isn't something I had to hone. At least not in this life, it's just a part of me. I rarely mention it because most people think it's hokey sounding, and it's difficult to explain anyway. Interestingly I have a friend from childhood who has changed dramatically personality wise in a negative way, but her presence still feels the same as it always has to me. I believe it's something eternal- and this temporal place, our moods etc. have no effect on it.

No problem :)