You need to start to be happy with yourself.. otherwise no one else would be happy being with you. here are some advice

marriage ... first is that the man should have God in his life.. majority believe in god so it is kind a easy one.... but does he fear god..... next is that he should have skills that he could do and he does it well to be able to go well on his own.. meaning he is already well set on his carrier.... and also he can still do it well the same even if you added to his life.. not just enough.. well enough for both of you.... then about you... he should make you glow of who you are! If you think he can not afford you live a life you wanted and it would be a struggle..... you know the answer. might as well find and do what you love to do...... on your own ...... and do it well enough! well enough!!! so you enjoy life as what it is : )---- build a life you wanted as your own ; ) that you shine even on your own plans.. waking up each morning loving what you do and finds to be doing...... good luck! watch this one... Going The Distance (2010)