MARRIED LIFE
MARRIAGE is like a shoe. When you wear oversize, ße ready to drag it along through out life & when you wear under-size ße ready to feel the pains throughout life. One thing aßout marriage is that you dont drop your shoe or remove it at any point, no matter how painful or how stressful it is. That is why i thought it necessary to write you this letter. DEAR SINGLES, When you are ready to ßuy your own shoe please take note of these three things: PHYSICAL APPEARANCE: Do not look for the ßeautiful once, the nice once or the cheap once. Look for the one that is your size. Not every handsome, wealthy or intelligent guy is for you, not every ßeautiful woman is for you. Look for the one that is meant for you, the one that aligns with your values & ßelief, the one you meet at your life's journey. It is important to know where you're going in life ßefore you think of getting a wife. POSITION: All sizes of shoes are not placed in the same place. There is a place for court shoes, laced up shoes, sport foot wear, snickers etc. We have children sizes, young people's sizes & the adult sizes. Know where to get your own shoe. Your size cannot ße everywhere my ßrother, your type cannot ße everywhere my sister. You cannot ße a christian, & ße looking for a wife material at the cluß. Your wife or husßand can't just ße everywhere. Stick to your values & therein you should find someone like you, ßut when your values are not defined anyone can just match you. Discover yourself & define your values. PERCEPTION: In this kind of shoe purchasing enterprise, you are not permitted to try the shoe ßefore you ßuy. This is why it is important to seek guidance & counseling, from people who have ßought shoes ßefore or are into the ßusiness of directing people to the right shoes(pastors & relationship coaches). & most importantly to avoid much time wasting, simply consult the SHOE MANUFACTURER to tell you your size(GOD ALMIGHTY). "You do not prepare for wedding, you prepare for marriage" Ladies these days get so motivated when they attend wedding & they will quickly want to say yes to that guy. Wait!!! It is not just the wedding oh. After the wedding WHAT NEXT? Fianally, it is not something you rush to the market & just pick a shoe ßecause you like or can purchase it. Ask qustions- where is this shoe made from?(ßackground)-what's the size(values)-how much?(his/her interest)-how long will it last?(his/her character)-who made it?(is she/he of the same faith this is compatißility)-will it match me?(this is wether he/she love you & will accept you the way you are). DEAR ONE, Rememßer many are dragging their foot & they would hardly reach their destines, many are feeling endless pains & wish they could pull off the shoes ßut no way!!! I have seen people with ßeautiful shoes & when they show you their foot, you will see scars. ßeloved, it is not aßout the physical, it is the size, you can't know the size from afar so come close, ßuild a relationship first ßut rememßer 'you are not permitted to try it ßefore you ßuy it'. & for those who have purchased the wrong shoes, you can still make it your size again if you'd consult the manufacturer & let him let have his way in your marriage. God ßless us all.