Marriage Tips

10 deadly mistakes to avoid in a marriage

Putting your kids first

Marriage can suffer when your children always come before your partner.

Not making time for friends

For many, especially women, socializing with friends can boost their energy and make them feel connected to the world around them. So make time with your friends.

Shutting down sexually

Men achieve a sense of intimacy and closeness primarily through sex. So when you’re not sexually available to him, he doesn't feel as romantic or intimately connected to you.

Not setting boundaries

Women are trained from an early age to be pleasers and to meet everyone else's needs before their own. Unless you take the time to recharge your batteries and say “no” once in a while, your life and your relationships will always be a struggle.

Not listening

This includes allowing your mind to wander, paying more attention to the computer or television set, ignoring body language and interrupting.

Argue to win

You do not need to have the last word in every argument. Admit it when you make a mistake or when you do not have all the answers. Instead, work out that problem together amicably.

Dishonesty

Having lies and secrets in your relationship can create distance and a lack of trust between you and your spouse.

Not fulfilling your promises

When you say you will do something, do it. Broken promises can cause marriage to suffer.

Having temper tantrums

Conflict should be handled in a constructive way. Having angry outburst may win an argument but it will be at the expense of the relationship.