Are you sure the person you are dating is dating YOU?

Hi everyone, hope we all are having a real nice experience here? Well let's talk about relationships especially for the single-dating ones here. I choose to call them single-dating because they might not really know where the relationship is heading to.

Now here's the big question "IS THE PERSON YOU ARE DATING ACTUALLY DATING YOU?" If this question is thrown to those in a relationship over there, only few will be sure of their answer. To some they're just catching fun, to others it's just to feel among, to some it's for the time being. To a few, let's just wait and hope the love wind takes us to a better tomorrow.

If after being in a relationship for a long time and you can't still define where it's headed probably because you see yourselves everyday, you're always together through smooth and rough times, you guys are single-married if you know what I mean... I'll advise you slow down a bit. Give yourselves space, try to find yourselves and convince yourselves that he/she is actually what you want. It may hurt to do so but just do it.

Whatever the outcome gives after is what really matters. If positive or negative just accept it and move on. The end they say justifies the means. Love is like a butterfly, it goes where it pleases and pleases where it goes.