the dude was not smooth and the whole thing was awkward

This is the most level-headed accusation leveled against Ansari that I've heard in this debate.

You should print out this post as a pamphlet and distribute it to high school sex-ed departments.

Also, "kids these days" should date more. There's a lot of pleasure to be had in anticipation and in getting to know each other.

Of course, I jumped right in and married my first true love 21 years ago. I don't know if that means I moved too fast or if I'm still going really, really slowly.