Secrets of the Circular Paths: ORBITTING to Orgasm
Time for another OMGYes.com episode review! Piggybacking off of the previous topic, we look at another level of customizing your cunnilingus or fingering routine: orbitting! Read on and discover how to shape-shift your movements to provide high levels of variety that can keep any couple busy. And check out the series update at the end of this post for what's next!
Circular motions are fantastic for the reason that there is no beginning and there is no end; I find circular motions encourage an exploration and wandering throughout the many areas of stimulation for women. By changing where and how we touch areas, more shades of pleasure can be explored. As I discussed in the previous review, layering can be an option to explore some of the more intense areas with less direct contact or pressure to be able to tailor the sensation. Variations in these combinations help to keep her guessing, adding additional levels of suspense and surprise, multiplying the pressures enjoyed. By changing the variables of speed, pressure, location ever so slightly or removing a piece of the track, you will have her craving for the heat of your finger, penis, tongue to once again make contact and continue toward orgasm.
Chasing the “itch”
We live modern lives of instant gratification, but there are still some things that we are willing to put time and effort into for the reward…orgasms definitely fall into that group! Omgyes.com explains, “For most women, pleasure only builds when those hot spots are stimulated repeatedly, in a pattern, over and over.” This feature of many women’s arousal can temporarily complicate identifying where their perfect spot may be. But giving pleasure is worth the commitment.(Refer back to my former blog articles for refreshers on the cumulative layering technique to avoid overstimulating a highly sensitive partner and be sure to use open communication because, neither of you are mind readers!) But even once you find the spot, don’t get too attached! The phenomenon of the “traveling itch” that will change after you begin scratching one spot can apply to women’s erogenous zones: with stimulation and increasing arousal, location and intensity of pressure may need to be adjusted.
Courtesy of Dawn Danby
The pudendal nerve has a lot of downstairs duties…along with orgasming, it helps regulate elimination in men and women.
As illustrated above, the innervation of the vulva branches all over the genital area and each woman’s anatomy is unique and will require it’s own unique technique. Sometimes the only thing better than hitting one hot spot, is hitting two (or more, with teamwork ;*)
For me personally, the combination of the penis glans or fingers using pressure to stretch the opening of my vagina while applying moderate pressure along the right side of my clitoris has created time-bending climaxes that can seem to carry along for the rest of the session. Can I orgasm with clitoral stimulation only? Sure. Can I orgasm just from that stretching? It’s not inconceivable, but it is more likely achieved with the interaction of the tension and pulling of the skin near my clit against that stretching below. You gotta explore it for yourself if you expect to become any kind of an expert.
What is your favorite approach? What variables feel good at the beginning? The middle? The end? Give a “helping hand” to our community by posting a trick that you have learned or show us in a video! Please share any questions or comments about the series.
##Series Update In the interest in equal representation to sex positivity for all sexualities, I would like to start introducing male topics to the series (I’m thinking the tag of #MansplainingMonday haha!) As with these OMGYes.com reviews, both those with the hardware and those doing the operating can learn through participation so bring up any myth, challenge, victory that you associate with men or women to have it included in #STEEMySex.
And remember, the STEEM work makes the dream work! ;*
Circle art from pixabay, collages contain original images
References for further reading:
National Vulvodynia Association: Vulvar Anatomy https://www.nva.org/what-is-vulvodynia/vulvar-anatomy/
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