10 KEY POINTS FOR A GREAT RELATIONSHIP

So many people make some silly avoidable errors in their relationships. They are silly because when you think about it later you’ll realize it’s not what you should raise even an eye brow for, and it’s avoidable because you can easily avoid it. Some people are very kind hearted but that doesn’t necessarily mean you should go into a relationship with them. Relationship and kindness work together but they are two different things.

1. It’s not compulsory for all relationships to lead to marriage. Some relationships are for a reason others are for a season and only few are for a life time (some lead to bed, some to bank while only a few leads to the alter).
   If it doesn't work out don't kill yourself because it was for something. Discover the purpose and move on.

2. Don't get carried away with his/her beauty or his/her money, if that person's inner person cannot keep you, his/her money or his/her beauty cannot either. Beauty fades, people go broke, but true love only grows

3. Love alone is never enough; trust, understanding, compatibility, wisdom, patience and tolerance are equally extremely important.
   
   https://thedatingdoc.com/love-quotes/

4. Never you compare him/her to someone else. This is one of the major causes of broken hearts. Never compare even while joking. Some people are fond of comparing their present with their ex. If things were great, he/she will not be your ex now.

5. When the negative signs are more than the positive signs, when trust, understanding, wisdom, patience are going down It is better to withdraw your heart before it gets 'broken'. Leave when the ovation is still high.

6. Don't marry him or her because you saw him or her in worship places. Many are in different worship places but not in touch with God. It is not WHERE you meet that matters, but WHO you meet that’s important. If going to church makes one a Christian then going to the bank should also make one a banker.

7. Your relationship should not only be mainly marriage driven but care, love and concern driven. Things will naturally fall in place if love, care and concern are intact in a relationship.

8. Don't give him or her the whole of your heart before giving the whole of your heart to God.
   God is Love. Love that person but love God first

9. Don't demand trust, earn it or build it or show it. It’s hard earning trust but it’s far harder regaining broken trusts, it’s impossible in some cases. So one need to be careful.

10. Extreme jealousy is the quickest way to break that relationship. When two people are in love, it’s normal for jealousy to come in especially when one party is seen with the opposite sex, but when the jealousy becomes too much, the relationship is at a very high risk of collapse.
    
    https://findpoly.com/blog/professor-sex-jealousy/

The most important of all is the Love if God. If God is in ones relationship.
Thanks for your time.