Where have all the good men gone?
Testosterone runs in male veins from a very early age. It is a ‘survival’ hormone, and that is the reason men love adventures. Feminine nature is considered as soft, mild, and gentle (read more: http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/5/11/tukksy79d4w5ey0jv8z0dlf4rdhvc1). Women are supposed to seduce the rebellious man because he doesn’t know any other world except the wild one. Ladies often get angry that men do not keep their promises but keeping vows when being crazy and rebellious by nature might be very challenging. Women should become a little bit more understanding.
There is this common belief that men value jobs over families and relationships, but there is a significant reason. Men take such responsibilities as becoming a partner or a father very seriously. All of the sudden they play a few roles at once: being a provider, producer, protector and problem-solver.
For a man, respect plays the biggest role, and a woman can show her love by respecting the person. Likewise, for every woman love is crucial and a man shows his love by recognising the woman. If a man finds the right lady, he thrives on her. Such a woman builds around the relationship the perfect environment for her partner to help him grow.
However, current trends and culture are full of bastardised definitions of friendships between men and women, how we should interact with each other. Any relationship is sold by media and the society as sexual and abusive, which makes both parties a little bit aggressive and ‘bitchy’ towards each other. He thinks ‘I know You only want my money’ and she thinks ‘I know You only want to sleep with me'. (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/8/12/controversy-bitchiness-kontrowersje-jdzowato)
As I observe the changing world, most of the women refuse femininity because it is considered weak (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/5/14/no-6-the-beauty-of-femininity-nr-6-pikno-kobiecoci). We try to dress like men, talk men and behave like men to maintain some devotion in our relationships. We get into relationships, but we don’t stay in those relationships (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/4/22/no-2-would-you-be-mine-nr-2-czy-bdziesz-mj). Why? Because we, as women act like men, and a man does not want to be with another man (who looks like a woman because that is You). Then a typical guy in an average relationship with a tomboy meets this gorgeous lady at work, who always wears skirts and he stays up late in the office to talk with her. Such a woman knows how to feed male ego by the ways she looks, talks and moves. (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/4/16/becoming-truly-elegnat-prawdziwie-elegancka)
So, do the men stay in relationships or do we have to go through seven relationships and three divorces (according to Hollywood, that is healthy and more than normal) to find the right man? A man stays with a woman if she can fulfil man’s expectations and needs before they were together. They fall in love, and then… he stops caring… Why? It is because women change; we start setting up very high expectations and comparing our relationships with our girlfriends. (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/7/27/no-26-what-women-want-iii-nr-26-czego-pragn-kobiety-iii) An unappreciated man (Your guy) will kill the devotion he has had for You. So, stop doing that!
If going to a further relationship is not his idea, then forcing him to get You a ring will be a temporary solution. A man’s idea of becoming more serious about You comes from finding being with You a better state than without. (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/4/20/emotional-intimacy-emocjonalna-blisko)
Women are too open (and it’s not only about their legs), but we have forgotten the art of being mystique. That attracts attention and holds interest (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/7/16/no-21-refinement-ii-nr-21-wytworno-ii). It keeps You in charge, so he must take the defensive position; it forces a man to show a woman that he is worth revealing all her secrets.
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Another great thing that is lost in today’s society is modesty (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/6/9/no-11-having-that-something-nr-11-mie-to-co). It works for women’s advantage and keeps men at a distance. That’s the most elegant and classy way that empowers women and helps them avoiding embarrassment. It weakens man’s domination. (read more http://www.theladylike.org/blog/2015/4/12/become-a-woman-sta-si-kobiet ).
Where do You think all good men have gone?