A closer look at Love.

It is verified that love is one of the most abused words in English language.

"I love you!" "I can't stop loving you" ...

are the sweet sounding words that proceeds from lovers to each other at the beginning of relationship, many even go to the extent of making vows and cutting covenant

But you 'll receive a great shock when you see the same people abusing themselves, fighting and even end up divorcing or breaking up in few years into the relationship

Maybe you are in that shoe, and you wonder what has happenned to the initial love you both shared, when you couldn't sleep without him and he couldn't do without you?

The fundamental problem is that love is expressed as emotion by many of us.

I wouldn't blame anyone for doing that because even the dictionary meaning of love centers on emotion.

love becomes short spanned when it is approached from the angle of feelings only because feelings don't last.

love is commitment

The unwavering determination you have to always be there for someone of your choice which makes you overlook some lapses and mistake is the real love.

If you will shift ground and get committed to that relationships, you will be surprised that it will work out.

That butterfly-in-the-belly feelings at the sound of his voice and that wow experience at the sight of your lady may not always be there. As a matter of fact , that thing that used to make you happy about him/her may not be there again, but the ability to stay put come rain come shine is what gives you the best in a relationship

This is sure path to happiness in relationship which gives birth to lasting and successful homes.

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