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It is always a great day with lot of sweet memories, the cutting of cake, music play, toast, snapshot and dancing. The wife in her flamboyant wedding gown and the husband in his fitted suit with love of friends and family members to spicing up the day- wedding day

But revise is always the case when the two parties are no more enjoying the relationship, when there is no more trust, peace and love and the husband and wife both agreed either with conflict or peace to go separate ways- divorce

Like a friend of mine will always say that

no marriage is perfect but you can make your own marriage perfect

I think one of the bedrock of marriage is understanding but if is getting weaker then the relationship is in danger. I have been having sleepless night, thinking about the rate at which relationship collapse in our society these days.

Is this part of the learned culture?...sigh

The rate at which people divorce each other these days got me so worried. Thousands of married women are out there without husband and vice versa.

what has happened to the first love and trust?

Thousands of children are out there suffering from the negative effect brought to them by their parents through divorce.

Divorce don't only break the love that exist between the husband and wife, it also break the love that exist between their children i.e when the man decided to take the male child and the woman take the female child.

I was opportune to settle a dispute between a couple. After having some conversation with the husband, he says and i quote

i don't think we can continue with our relationship again, she nags so much and i don't like it. I warned her times without number but she wouldn't listen to me and moreover, she doesn't know how to dress, she always dressed shabbily.

I asked him, is that the way she has been dressing since you met her through the periid of courtship? He replied, "i thought she would change." During the period of courtship, there are a lot of things we need to undestand about each other, there are a lot of things we need to take note and try to change not to have problem in our marriage. Who kniws maybe the husband was trying to protect the relationship then to avoid loosing her to another man.

Let your love to her be unconditional. If you love her because of the way she walk and she finally had an accidentand the leg was cut, will you still love her? Now to the woman, if you love him because he had money and he doesn't have money now, will you still love him?

Possible Effect Of Divorce In Our Society

. Prostitute
. Backwardness in academic performance of the child
. Poverty
. Lack of dignity

For every responsible man, there must be a woman and vice versa. Two heads is better than one.

Note

Woman, always repect your husband, do what will make him happy - always dress neatly, learn how to cook better food and don't nag over unnecessary issue and to the husband , never see your wife as a punching bag, always protect her even when she's nit perfect , encourage her. There is beauty all around, when there is love at home.

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