Living life on your own terms. 👍🏽By Athena

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Are you one of those people who live life on your own terms?i am..but it hasn’t always been that way.being the loner that I am.i have always had either lived with relatives or had a roommate.
and I never gave it much thought as to how it would be to live totally on my own.what my life would be like if I lived alone?totally calling the shots in my home.until now..now as I get older and I seek a different way of living.i see that I can live on my own.
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I can decorate according to my own tastes.make as much noise as I want without worrying about disturbing others in the house.what a freeing feeling that is.also not fighting with someone over possible nonsense to live in utter peace.that is one way that I choose to live life on my own terms.
guys wonder all the time how could I be so happy not dating or being in a relationship.all I can say is that I don’t need to find my other half.because I am whole all by myself.i don’t need to be in a relationship.to please other Especially Family.

As I get older I find that I have a right to say no to things and to people that do not suit me.never again do I have to wear a fake wedding ring just so guys would not ask for my number.i just say no thank you.then I just walk away.or tell a guy that I’m in a relationship as my way of saying that I’m not interested and I don’t want to be bothered.
I just say NO THANK YOU.

One guy yesterday told me that I had a wall up lol.i said no.i’m just A stern and ferm talking person sometimes.but I think that was his way of hoping that I would say .in a weak little woman’s voice.(no I don’t have a wall up)it almost felt like he wanted me to say that then prove myself to him in some way.but I have come to a point in my life we’re I just don’t care.and don’t be fooled thinking that I do care if I happen to ask someone’s opinion regarding me.thats actually a bad habit that I need to break because I never listen anyway.i dance to the beat of my own drum.lol

I ‘m the type of female that doesn’t want to make time for a relationship.i want to.
Seek out new life and new civilizations boldly go where no one has gone before.😁

Athena out