Is love what we socially understand through love?

Hello everyone!

Today I would like to start with a question so that everyone can think about and help me out to enrich, and above all, expand the meaning of the word #love:

Is love what we socially understand through love?

For cultural reasons, we all have a similar definition of love, but without realizing that it may be that these definitions are the limit to the love itself?
In this world it seems that if I do not get what socially #love means it is not love.
There are certain definite rules of how love should be, how men and women should behave within their pre-established social roles, if they go out of the established or change roles, it becomes rare and even not true love.
People tend to be very mean with their opinions when a couple has a love that socially does not fit.

How far do we realize that culture influences us in the opinions we give, when choosing a partner, when relating to our partner? Is that why most do not work?

The idea of ​​this post is to arrive at deep answers, to help us expand our minds beyond the cultural, to realize how much we allow ourselves to be influenced by the masses is fundamental. If the definition that we have socially introjected for love is so accurate, why does love fail so much?

What do you think?