One cause of relationship colapse!!

Relationship are the best composition of mankind basically found in the pairs of female and male.
Colapse is its end .
The cause is choice.
Why and how?

Humanity is piled with choices selected personaly, this means that what this likes the other wont.vice versa.
No matter what level love corresponds one with, it can never overdue choice.
Thanks.
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