Yes you are right!! No one should have a say on who you love!!! And no not religion or at least not religion nowadays back when the “pagans” were around all was good..ppl just enjoied life..so should we!!! You expressed honest emotions in your blog and I fully understand the reason behind them..Congrats and will be following from know on..if that matters in any way.. I do encourage you to fight the good fight and live life the way you want because in no fucking way no one can tell you what to do with your own life!!! Live love embrace whoever you want to !!! You only live once!!!