The lessons in the movie cut across all levels of relationship from marriage, courtship, dating and so on. If you truly want to pick a lesson or two from the movie, you must not be sentimental or take a side in your judgement.

I always advice that couples should watch this movie together if they really want to maximize the lessons in it. You cannot fully pass the message to the other party by narrating the movie. In my own opinion, the movie address things we take for granted in relationships starting from

• Communication
• Taking responsibility
• Third party interference
• Temperament

Kudos to Tyler Perry for this Blockbuster movie.