4 PHASES OF A COUPLE RELATIONSHIP | EXPLAINED WITH THE SEASONS OF THE YEAR
Communication and trust will allow everything to emerge in the best possible way
Could easily compare love with a drug necessary for our soul, every day that passes we all want to feel loved, we want to have a love of movies (although we deny it, deep down we know we would like to have that happy forever). Returning to our reality as mere mortals we realize what we can compare love with the seasons. Sounds absurd does not it? But, think about the following:
- SPRING: As our first season there is always a cool climate, the bluest days ever, all full of color and flowers at their best. Who does not expect spring anxious? I could compare it with the beginnings of relationships or love affairs, of those who feel the warm heart, that produce euphoria, make us feel safe, happy and with a desire that never ends. Has not this happened to you at some time in your life?
- SUMMER: Summer is undoubtedly one of the best seasons where the weather is perfect to go to the beach or just sit in a park and enjoy a good company, this time usually continues the steps of the first season, but with more strength and momentum. It is also here where our feelings are more intense, this time awakens millions of physical and emotional sensations, where we print much of ourselves to the other person, we begin to strip the soul. Here comes the common phrase (which you have surely heard before)
"Summer loves"
- AUTUMN: I would define it as the most irregular season of the year, where there are cool days, but without waiting for us the rain may fall as if it were the end of the world, return to reborn the sun, the leaves fall, the weather is unpredictable. This is where I am reminded of that stage of relationships or love affairs in which storms are unleashed, we fall into lies, into jealousies, into insecurities, we become routine and we begin to tire of doing the same thing always, we know "everything" what we had to know about the person, we realize that we want it in our life, but the routine cycle becomes inevitable at some point. Sex is usually casual, without as much desire or euphoria as at the beginning it was, the whatsapp messages are the classic ones:
-Good morning love
Good Morning
-Have a nice day today, I love you .
-Same as you .
These conversations like this undoubtedly produce a knot in my stomach, the distant treatment is a sign that something strange, How do you feel when you go through this?
Are there no passages that always expect something unexpected from that person, but only in the same vicious circle of habit, where the topics of conversation, emotion and happiness are not the last? the same ones from the beginning and where do we end up getting used to? We've all passed, I'm almost sure yes. Enough of the same!- WINTER: According to wikipedia winter is characterized by having short days and long nights. Coincidence? I do not think so.
This is the classic stage of the relationship in which autumn lasted longer than it should, perhaps many months passed until this point. But when we arrive, we know that we are about to break the cup, here we already feel overwhelmed, sore and bad-humored. The routine, habit, I live as you want to call it, I even pass away to vanish.- Chat on whatsapp*
- As was your day?
-All right.
-I'm tired I'm going to bed.
Goodnight.
At this point we know that the relationship is in a tailspin, (although sometimes we continue to love our person and insist on not ending the relationship) The question is: Why do we usually have these attitudes with our "special" person? ? The reasons are endless, since you discovered unintentional infidelity and still decided to keep trying, but deep down your heart is numbed with pain and you can not find a way to ignore and move on. And there is even the possibility of thinking that that person or you, they met someone new that somehow makes them feel happy. I could even talk about just reasons in a post.
My personal advice so that you never arrive in your relationship to the dreaded winter season, is trust and communication. Never stop saying what bothers you or what you feel, never stop giving your opinion no matter how bad it may be. Always remember that love is free, you are free to love and let yourself love, never settle for less, love has no ties or rules.
Love is indispensable, we will always need it hanging around in some corner of our lives, but love is all this and more, never settle for crumbs. Although this post refers a little more to love in relationships, keep in mind that love is a smile to a stranger, it is a hug from our friends, it is a kiss from our grandmother, it is a mother's advice, It is the breeze running through our face or the trees being carried by the same wind. It is waking up every morning and breathing, looking in the mirror and loving what is reflected in it .
Let us love without prejudice, without excuses. And remember that to love in this way we must first repay all this to us. Love us to the bone no matter what.
If you want me to make a post about self-love, tell me in the comments.
Let us be led by the pure and real revolution of love!
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Jet of kisses.
- AUTUMN:
