This is possibly my favorite of all of your posts. There are just so many gems inside. My favorite is your debunking of this idea of gradually becoming more unconditionally loving, or that it feels light and fluffy to love unconditionally.

You've helped me see a new aspect of what ego is. One aspect of ego is how it is our rejection of what is. It is our war with what is. It is our thinking we can do it better, our judgment, our condemnation. "That person is not as they should be. Let me fix that." Unconditional love gives that up, and becomes an eternal "yes."