"One In A Million..."

In our lives, we have met different guys, and we will meet more as days and years pass by. Each of them will leave a different kind of impact that we will always remember them by.

There’s this “Jerk” who only wants good freaking times with you and is always nowhere to be found on special occasions and in times of need.

And there’s this “Party boy” who’s always out drinking and partying almost every night and you are forced to go out too, if you don’t want him taking other girls. Normally, you only see him when the sun goes down and booze come out. You never have serious conversations about life or future plans because chances are he’s always drunk, and so are you.

There’s also the “Athlete”. He has got an amazing body and is dedicated to his sport. The good thing about him is that he’s aware that relationships take teamwork, but in your fights, he surely thinks there should be a winner too. He’s also very busy with game practices and you’ll compete with his teammates for his time. You should also accept that you will come second or third because his priority will undoubtedly be his sport.

“Mr. Player/Cheater” is a common kind of guy that you can easily find anywhere, and I really mean ANYWHERE. We know that this should not be tolerated, but we see a lot of girls in romantic relationships with cheaters/players. We should keep in mind that, “Once a cheater, always a cheater.”

We may also stumble into “Mr. Baggage” who hasn’t moved on from his past relationship and is looking at you as a rebound. Of course he wouldn’t make it too obvious coz you might leave him. On the surface, he will try to make it seem like he’s the perfect guy, but it’s his way of hiding the fact that he’s not quite over his past.

And after all those adventures, if you’re lucky enough (like me), you may meet this kind of guy whom I want to call “My One in a Million”. He’s a great man as a whole. He’s the only guy you’ve had real and smart conversations with. He likes talking about future plans and goals in life. He’s so intelligent but he knows there’s still a lot to learn and he still tries to learn new things everyday. He sees difficult things/situations as challenges that will make him a better individual. He is serious in life and with you. He doesn’t like playing games. He doesn’t keep things from you, except for his nice surprises. He likes planning and doing sweet things for you. He truly cares about you. He appreciates you. He’s there when you need him NO MATTER HOW FAR YOU ARE. He knows what he wants and he stands for it. You are on top of his priority list. He makes you feel so special in his own ways. He’s almost perfect, but it takes a hell of a woman to keep up with him. He’s a total package. He’s not a guy anymore, he’s a MAN. You’ll know you are never gonna find somebody else like him.
And when he’s gone, you’ll be a total wreck. You will find yourself full of regrets and “what ifs?”. Then you’ll realise you were not good enough.

I am very fortunate to have met “My One in a Million” man. But most good things end. I know I don’t deserve a great man like him YET. However, I'm still thankful that I have experienced what it's like to be with a "One in a Million" man.

For now, I am not planning to look for someone new. Instead, I will try to fix myself so that one day I can be a “One in a Million woman” and if I will be lucky enough in the future, I hope I will find a man like him again.