Very good post @geeflow. Thank you for sharing! Just remember that love can also begin with infatuation and that it is possible to be attracted at first to the looks. But then it should progress from being in love to love and that is the true test. If it progresses, it is true love, if the initial infatuation wears off and there is nothing left, it is not true love.
My only critique is that you did not put in any scripture or reference to christianity or God. You could have easily include that as you put this post in flaminghelpers under christianity posts only.