Relationship advice #1 - What is True Love? Is it really what we think it is?
Hey friends, from today I am going to start a new series named “Relationship Advice”. i will be putting forward some questions and will answer it in the best possible way.
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Before advising you anything about relationship, first i would want to shed light on today's question, What is Love?
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This is what Wikipedia has to say :- Love is a variety of different emotional and mental states, typically strongly and positively experienced, that ranges from deepest interpersonal affection to simple pleasure.
But i have different views towards it.
Love, it blows off your mind right? Well, that's what we have been hearing. But do you think its true? It should be, but so many people misunderstand love with things like overprotective,jealousy or possessiveness. True love isn’t either of those things.
Do you know what love really is?
We often mistake attraction, attachment and lust as love.
When you have a fear of losing anything or anyone is not true love.
When ever you think you own something or someone its not true love.A selfish man can get attached to things but will never be able to love. A person who is dependent on others to keep him entertained and happy will never fall in true love.
when you say that you love you country or company. The responsibility of keeping it clean,following the rules, helping others in need , not appreciating corruption , etc are all part of it. LOVE has a very deep meaning.
If you are not doing the above things then you are just saying that you love your country or company,you don't really mean it.
Then what is love my friend?
Is sensation a part of love?
Is feeling a part of love?
Why do u see people in courts filing for divorce cases? There was time when they said they were deeply in love with each other. What happens to them?
THINK ! THINK ! THINK!
Why do they hate each other now?
The main mistake we do in today's world is that we call pleasure,feeling and sensation as true love.we have a selfish motive behind every attraction and pleasure.Once this attraction and pleasure is not that exciting you start loosing interest in other person.
True love is when you don't have any expectation from anyone.
- True love is when you don't have the fear of loosing anything.
- True love is when you don't really care what people say.
- True love is when you don't seek other's approval.
- True love is when your happiness is not dependent on others.
- True love is when you don't desire anything like money,power,fame,etc
- True love is when you put other people’s needs equal to — or before your own
When you deeply understand that you are happy by yourself.
Love is something if it comes to your life every moment will be enjoyable
True Love is unconditional.
I would like to hear from you guys.What is your take on True Love? Are you in True Love right now? Will appreciate your thoughts and views.
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STOPWhat i believe, nothing is 100%.
True love? that makes you absolutely satisfied, never works.
up voted.
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