Sorry to saying that but I think is love not about hurry and obligation but is about freedom and opportunities... So, I have to say yo should not get married at the moment... :( He has to understand this. Anyway, what is his reason about the fast marriage? But, pls don't be said, life is beautiful and even sad things have their inner hapiness, just found it. ;) Back to the marriage, It's just my subjective opinion, you should listen to yourself. Decision is only yours!!!