People go into relationship with the mindset of being married to the same person they met 3sec ago just because you've felt lost for him or her, Gbam he is your dream man immediately
Hia! Slow down baby girl

It's not a bad idea to meet someone and feel loved by them,then you expect to be with them forever,its never bad,because they are your kinda person

It's bad when you start going extra miles,acting out of your way and doing things that doesn't count! No, that won't keep him or her,it won't take you both to the altar

The most important thing is being you, being real and doing only the things you can, if he or she doesn't appreciate you that way, they never will don't go beyond! You will definitely get tired and things will fall apart

Be in a relationship because you derive joy from it
Be in a relationship because you find peace and comfort being there
Do the things you are doing because that is you,and can never change
Do the things you are doing because that makes you happy as well

Stop pressurizing people, not all relationship lead to marriage, allow it to flow,whatever comes,comes! What doesn't come,should go.

Stop marrying someone without their knowledge, stop being the father or mother to their children without their knowledge!
If am in a relationship and it doesn't work out, I feel bad and maybe cry and off it goes

Stop pushing people to do what they haven't felt or thought about! Someone perfect will come, just do the needful.
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