:D Had similar thoughts of yours till I've met my husband. I tried to fight that 14th-February-fever. But my husband was very persistent on that one. He expresses love to me every day and could not see why the 14th February should be any different... Thus, 14th February is just another day to express love and celebrate it, a reason to spend some extra time together.

All in all I think that a healthy approach to this celebration will make this day valuable in means of a reminder to celebrate every day and cherish the loved ones every day. We all get consumed by everyday life, and sometimes thus a simple reminder makes the difference. 🙏

But of course lots of people uses this or others celebrations as a day to "tick off" some silly responsibilities. But I must note that this is not due to the wrong celebration day... This is due to unhealthy relationship at it's core.