LOVE AND INFATUATION
People without this knowledge of first sight can just react to it as love be and before you know it, marriage preparation is around the corner and in most cases.
First of all let's know the differences between Love and Infatuation:
Love is the the affection one have towards the opposite sex while Infatuation is the actbif loving unnecessarily with the motive to collect a thing from your spouse..
Infatuation lives in a make to believe world while Love lives in a reality world. Infatuation lives in a haste world that is, happy to know very little and work with it. Love longs to understand and know more. Love wants to study the other persons motive,dreams, wants and believe because it wants to do it's best possible to make them fulfilled.
Love mature and grows through time. Infatuation get weak and collapse with time. Ifbyou find yourself "Falling in Love" only to be discouraged, remembering this trial of love will trigger you on what to do.
Love focus on the other person but infatuation is self centered. People with infatuation are all concerned with their own satisfaction. In your relationship, what is your degree of focus, or what you can do to make that person great and make the relationship a success?
Love requires genuine feeling of trust and protection. Protection can come down and grow outbof deep understanding about the other person's character and records, that is you know who the person is and how discipline he is.
Love knows and value the importance of distance. Infatuation see love as closeness. If you want to detect if tour relationship is built on love or infatuation, provevit on distance. If circumstances can temporarily separates you from the one you love, that will prove what you both share in the relationship.
Thank you all for reading until I come your way again for next edition on Love and Infatuation