DEAR GUYS, AFTER THE SIX PACKS AND WALLET, WHAT THEN?

It is an undisputable fact that a sexy body with an even sexier account balance will get any man the girl of his dreams. In fact, It is statistically unlikely that any right thinking lady will not notice what a catch you are. A few ladies, might, maybe because of course she is not in her right senses, but like I said earlier, it is unlikely that such a lady exists for a hunk like you.

So here's the thing. If you belong to this category, landing the lady of your dreams shouldn't be a problem, right, I mean true love is guaranteed with so much poverty in the world, ladies waiting for their princes and you swoop down with your armour of a body and minty wads for shield. Come on man, her love is a settled deal....or it isn't?

Well, maybe not anymore in this 21st century.....Maybe now, it takes more than a body like Zeus and worth like Mansa Musa to move ladies. I mean, if this was all it took, the rich wouldn't be rich and handsome divorcées right? Hollywood stars aren't known to be the best at keeping love, I hear. So here's the deal, you're not the first guy to have the alpha male physique and some cash to go with it, and we're sure you definitely ain't gonna be the last either. So sit down for some dose of humility.

There's no need making an already sweet soup less of what it is. After all, the eye is friends with all things attractive. Now, after your dashing looks and flashy cars and gadgets give you a boost, What next?

YOU LET HER KNOW SHE'S YOUR WORLD
How do you think it would feel, even as a guy, to have someone come home from work and run to the bedroom if you're not in the living room, sit beside, not to tell you how his clients pissed him off at work that day, or anything about himself, yet; but to ask you how yours was. The partner who would wake up beside you, has work in an hour but says "Good morning" and inquires what you want for breakfast and your plans for the rest of the day.

I don't know about you, but gestures like that, has a lady's heart on a swing for life. Treat her with respect and grace. Stare into her eyes like you see the moon in them. Consult her in all your decision makings, pay attention to her opinions, use all the ones you can and thank her. The ones that you are convinced won't benefit your business, explain to her why it wouldn't work and thank her still. Reverence her in your words and actions, and never let her doubt she's the most important thing in the world to you.

She's is the only place you are permitted to let your guard totally down. Act silly around her. Make her giggle and feel safe enough with her to let out your inner child. Help her pick a dress for the party, offer to comb her hair. Massage her back and feet after a really long day, cook something special for her at intervals. Hold and kiss her passionately in places, like it's just the two of you there. See to it that her cheekbones hurt with laughter. Do your best to be her fairy tale come true.

A BASKET OF COMPLIMENTS
whenever your woman buys a new dress or wears a new hairstyle, know impressing you was the muse behind that particular choice. Even if it doesn't look as nice as it did on the mannequin, shower her with so much compliments that she forgets her insecurities and wears it with confidence. Delete all the abasing and hurtful words in your vocabulary. Even when she faults, remind her she's a goddess and help her snap out of a sour mood. Tell her she's beautiful every day and night. It may seem excessive or irrelevant, but to a lady, it is all that matters.

CHASE HER DREAMS LIKE THEY'RE YOURS
chase her life dreams and aspirations like you chase away error from your good looks, or like your fingers follows the contours of her desires. Whichever works best for you, and support her in ways that you can. Talk about all the plans she's mapped out to achieve and make sure she meets her target(s). Go through her proposals with her, and have her read her speech to you. Ladies want to know you're into their future as much as you're into their body.

DON'T JUST LISTEN, HEAR HER.
No lady, no matter how subtly endowed can pull off a straight body. As they are crooked in physique, so is their hearts and thoughts. A lady's first language is code/sign. Watch out for 'em stickers bro. Decode what she's really means by those ambiguous statements. Don't just listen, hear what she's saying. Always read in between the lines, you can never be too busy for that; at least you shouldn't be if she's for keeps. And then, when you listen to her, be sure to hear her. When a lady finally decides to talk to you, she wants to know you will hear her. She will appreciate that a lot.

AFTER ALL THESE
All said and done, you won't only be making yourself a man she will love. You will also be making her a lady who will be receptive to your love.

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