I agree with your article. My recent love now is that he's only courting me for a month only and we've known each other since college but we don't have the chance to talk with each other. I learned from my past already. My mindset is that if I already like him then say YES, besides on the process of our relationship I have all the opportunity to know him more. I believe that while a guy is still courting a girl, he will only show all his lovable side inorder to get the girl's yes.