Nigerian ladies: Caveat
There's nothing wrong imbibing or copying other people's dressing style if it suits your Society and dress sense but, it is "Haram" (unacceptable if not punishable) when you "Copy" people wrongly or, cause distortions in what you copied.
We're Africans, Nigerians in particular. Exposing some dead "Adipose tissues" in the name of fashion is unacceptable. Nowadays I wonder what Men look out for in a woman before walking her down the aisle? Is it the sagging breasts (adipose tissues) or, the exposed "clean or dirty" panties or the woman's personality, et al? Well, different strokes for different folks. Thing is, I find it perturbing when our girls wear all sorts of "Winter" clothing even in our hot Nigeria and Men lustfully go after them, why? Why can't these girls copy rightly? Most of those so called "skin tight" trousers/pants you see the 'Oyinbo' celebrities wear are called "Thermal wears" meant to prevent cold in their 'very cold' environment (those clothes generates heat). Now, is Nigeria as cold as the Americas, Russia, the UK and others? Isn't it shameful that as "hot" as Nigeria our girls have resorted to wearing winter clothes as the new fashion, yet we applaud and go after them? Shameful.
Almost every 'so called' what's up girl in Nigeria wants to wear "leader jackets, thermal wears and winter boots" in Nigeria, why? These things would generate more heat under the scorching Nigerian Sun, why wear them? No wonder some of us have developed "repulsive body odours", nonsense. I ask again, what do "black men" look out for in their women nowadays?
To spice up this sickening malady, you'll find our girls expose their breasts, clean and dirty pants and tag it either of the following; "Party tins (things), Casablanca tins (things), sleeping mode activated, baffing (bathing) tins (things), hotel tins (things), drinking tins (things, wedding tins (things), etc". I feel like throwing up most times when "unfaithful" young and old, married and unmarried men pour accolades on them instead of doing them a 'private mail' to correct them. What is the black Society turning into, where are we headed fashion-wise? The high level of moral decadence in this Country is epidemic I think. I can't imagine my madam-to-be dressing like one whore just to impress her friends or, in the bid to "feeling among" as a big girl, GOD forbid bad thing. I am not saying girls should dress like "Sister Mary" but, dress responsibly not like a cheap whore looking for who to devour.
What are those winter shoes for in a Nigerian night club? Do we have snow there? Or, has it snowed before in Nigeria? Or, are we preparing against one (snow)? Disgracefully, most of our so called "big girls" girls prefers to advertise their "fallen breasts" to the public even before their men and unborn kids beholds them, what is happening? Is this African fashion, too? If you must copy Rihana, Kim, Jolie, Madonna, Gaga et al, can't they be properly copied? You talk of rape, why won't the foolish guys rape you with such apparel?
In Nigeria a girl who must have been raped would even beg the perpetuators to protect her by keeping quiet. Rape here is almost a Mirth unlike in the Countries where Rihana, Jolie, Gaga and Madonna came from, why copy them? Be warned, sisters. Especially, our myopic and uninformed so called female celebrities whose stuck in trade now is "copying" everything in the Western world, check yourselves sometimes in the mirror before you dash out thinking you're gorgeously dressed.
If you think your "foolish" dressing would impress local-champions like me, you failed it. Truth is, it is disgusting and paints you in the baddest light. For this sane men, this is "Caveat emptor" for you. Go for what you want, a monkey can only give birth to a monkey not a gorilla.
I am vexed with 'some' girls what I see them wear.
I am Archpope Afam Donfingers Onwochie
#Dressthewayyouwanttobeadressed