How to do the only child?

Abdul Alim: Nowadays many mothers-babies are seeking a child just to make them comfortable with all the facilities. Again, a little bit of fear in them seems to be the only child, I mean, stubborn, stubborn and tempered. Besides, because there is no sister, only one child will be surrounded by loneliness.

When you are busy at the office all day, your child is waiting at home for you. If the couple is busy, the problem is more serious. In the mind of the parents, the child's loneliness remains in the mind. Maybe your child was so upset that he learned to make something new or suddenly got into a quarrel with a friend, and did not find his parents to share his joy and pain. It is unlikely that the baby will be introvert if it happens day after day.

Managing a child alone is a big challenge in life. How to handle child problems? There are some suggestions for you.

• Attention!
  The biggest advantage of a child is that parents do not have to share love and affection with others. But it is not good to give the only child as you want. It is also very important in life to realize the feeling of being in life as well as to realize the feelings of not having it. And when you want to share something with you, listen carefully to her. Since he has no siblings, he would like to tell you all the things. If you keep a little bit of time to listen to his words at the most of your work, then he will not feel alone at all.

• Keep the child busy
  Keep the child busy in various activities. Make a list of what will work until you go to sleep from the morning. Encourage your child in creative work. His leisure time will be spent on it. If you keep busy yourself in constructive work, it will help to increase its positive energy.

• Develop values
  Try to develop values ​​from a child in small to small. This value will help him recognize the good and the bad. If you can develop the right to judge everything, then in the next life it will show him the right path. Do not give them everything to your hands. Teaching from small to achieve a lot of things is not available.

• Teach self-defense
  Teach them to protect yourself for your only child in the absence of your own child. Since the beginning of puberty, try to build awareness in the physical, psychological way that your child can protect yourself. If your child is a little older, then your friends, relatives and relatives teach you to maintain physical distance while associating with everyone. While walking on the street, walking through the street, seeing the signal, if someone is not allowed to eat, do not eat, walk through the main road instead of the lane or the dark streets, call them in danger if they follow them.

Encourage the child to work in his hobby
Someone can make a picture, someone can sing or dance, some may not have such a so-called hobby. Your child might love to make unheeded structures with bricks, wood or mud. Do not flirt for it, rather encourage him. Because it can also be the identity of his future talent. But remember, encouraging your child to work in the hobby does not mean that you will also constantly pressurize him to be the first one. Do not judge creative work comparisons. But in order to increase his interest, let him know about new information. Painting Exhibition, Jolasha, Papette shows, theater, take them to see them. Give your child's favorite book, color pickle to him.

• Teach to work in compliance
  Help the child prepare for a list of favors. Teach him how to work with respect to fame. If you are busy, you can take care of yourself seriously.

• Enter Space
  Do not always monitor the child. Let him spend some time in your own way. Even though he is small, he has a world of his own. Let him think in his own world. If everything is tied up, his self-confidence can be broken.