Standards? Oh yes! She must have no student debt. No credit card debt. A semi healthy bank account. Brought up by both a mom and dad. Does not whine about her family, job or especially. her ex's......but is all about the solution...and gets things done. Does not blink when I ask her to bring an STD note from the doctor, clearing her ..after presenting her with mine. No children, no low impulse control which is very easy to test. If she is argumentative...well...you know...bye. And do I really have to explain why must I have all these things (especially different streams on income) before I begin entertaining these lovely creatures?
That is where the dating pool...begins. If she is going to be a series regular...there are additional protocols which allow me to vet her on an ongoing basis. I don't worry about female shit tests. Too busy with protocols of my own. Not giving a shit about anything that does not align itself with my ever evolving lifestyle? Oh yes!!
Gents...I am 59. No scalawags need apply. I have no need of drama as I love my peace and quiet.You'll be suprised how the dating life changes overnight. Instead of being on the offense...you may just find yourself fending off covert offers to the point it will begin to annoy you.
In the 80os there was this No Money Down real estate dude (not Allen or Sheets) who used to say..."People don't get into trouble because they ask for too much. They get there because they settle... for too little. In this day and age where women hunt men for sport, cash and prizes...her having a pair of thunder thighs is just not enough for entrance to the castle. All females I have ever known have standards for their prospects. Guess what? It is my turn. What are your standards gents? I'm all about adding to my protocols. Peace and blessings be upon you and yours.