Yes, yes, yes. You are very insightful @lifeisawesome! We're so used to doing what we're told we ought to do or feel what we ought to feel, that we're confused and doubt ourselves too much to trust ourselves. But I for one trust my own feelings, instincts, intuitions above what society tells me, and I find that generally it keeps me on a path I am happy with :-) After all, why should anyone know better than us what's right for us?