Sex- A Dependency or Addiction- Part 3

Harry somehow got addicted to porn and dating sites. His heart wanted peace but mind engulfed in sex. He started searching for the books or other things on the internet about how to control and win over sex desires. Ultimately he found the famous book "Sex Matters: From Sex to Superconsciousness" by Osho. He felt relaxed when he came to know from this book that we can transcend sex through meditation and by relaxing our internal system, by going inside not by going outside. He was encouraged by the words Osho has written in which he said that we will enjoy the same intense pleasure that we got while orgasming during sex. There is a huge difference between pleasure through meditation and pleasure through sexual orgasm, sexual orgasm went off in seconds and we really want to withhold it for more time, to get same experience we want to sex often. Sexual orgasm also places us in the egoless state, into completely superconscious, peaceful, blissful state where we become one with the universe but for only seconds.
Meditation pleasure remains with us for a much longer time, we will feel the egoless, blissful, beautiful state of life where we are completely free from tensions, our impulses and nerves calm down.
He started doing meditation for 2-3 hours a day and happy to report that I have actually seen completely changed man who got victory over his weakness, now he controls sex not sex control him. He does it but not quite often and he is living very controlled life and feeling quite happy.
It is legit to do sex but when sex controls us than we often fulfil this desire through illegitimate sources and become the slave of sex. Throughout the life sex control our life, we always haunted by it till death. When we control sex then we can live much better and harmonious life because then we will be able to concentrate well and more creatively into daily tasks, our decisions become much better because they were taken from our higher consciousness.
I am also very encouraged by his story and trying to do meditation daily, trust I am also feeling a great calmness inside me and feeling much relaxed and better. Best of luck to you all.
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