Conquering challenges in life. A short insight

How can the past make us and destroy us?

A simple question yet only those who are tough can get through and survive. From my own experiences, I realized that the past can either make us or destroy us, but I discovered that I can make us and destroy us at the same time. How? Well, one can answer and discover to our different viewpoints and by how we deal with every single thing that has happened in to our lives. Sometimes, we get destroyed but in order to make the most out of that destruction, we must look at its bright side.
Sometimes, we are destined to experience the pain to let us remind ourselves that something's not right and an action is needed to be done... let go. We need to let go of the things that aren't right anymore...may it be relationships, hobbies, or anything toxic we are used to do.

Whatever that has happened will always stay within us, it will never perish just like how the bubble pops. To make it useful, we must figure out and decipher it's purpose for coming into our lives :)