The Power of Introverts

vanemilano (47)in #life • 6 years ago

Being an introverted person in a world of extroverts is not easy, this type of person thinks in a different way, perceives the world in a different way.

An introverted person prefers few outside stimulations, they are usually calm and comfortable when they are alone, thinking or creating. Unlike what is believed to be introverted, it is not the same as being shy, in fact, shyness is often presented as nervousness, anxiety and panic to be in public, that is, an introvert may be shy but not necessarily shyness is linked to the introversion

Introverts are more concerned with what they can create, constructive thoughts and are mainly focused on exploring their ideas and emotions. They prefer to be alone but this is not a sign of depression, it means that they want to focus their energy on their own thoughts. Usually when they start a conversation with a person they are inclined to touch on more important topics and not so much superficial matters.

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Feeling underestimated by being introverted.

The problem is that we live in a world designed for extroverted people, since people who feel comfortable are valued much more. This brings with it a greater consequence: the introverts begin to believe that something bad happens with them, they start to try too hard to fit in, in some cases they are excluded, leaving society being a pity because a great talent is wasted.

Introverts and love

It is not easy to find, flirt and go to parties to socialize with the person who attracts you can mean the end of the world, so you need some time to recharge energy because to spend so much time trying to get out of that small shell that bar is Exhaustion and need a time alone with your mind.

You must leave that belief that introverts hate to socialize, on the contrary they may possess social skills, what happens is that they are people feel free inside, have the characteristics of being creative, sensitive, original, analytical and a good emotional manager.

It's just that, that sometimes they need their personal space and alone. There is nothing wrong.

With this I do not mean that the introvert should go out to parties to meet a couple, this kind of people know where they can get along better, love to surprise anywhere, maybe buying the morning coffee. Boom! there it is, waiting for you.

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To end this article, I want to tell you that I am an introverted person, since always that has been a characteristic of my personality, with the passage of time I have learned to develop better and not feel bad if sometimes I want to stay with myself enjoying the tranquility. I believe that everyone, extroverted and introverted, have skills that can help improve the world we just have to learn to express our ideas. Never feel obligate to do something you do not want or do not feel comfortable just to fit, do not lose your essence that is paramount.