RE: Why Guns Won't Solve Our Problems And Neither Will Gun Control - Here's My Alternative Solution.
Yes, I agree that we share important understandings. I am passionate about sharing understandings from the heart about the lost wisdom regarding free will because I know how needed it is now.
I will just reiterate that by placing fear as an opposite to love, you make fear a 'bad' thing. By placing dislike in a box along with fear (bad/negative) you actually negate the entire process of free will choice. If I have to choose between red grapes or white grapes, I can just choose purely based on a love of red grapes - with zero involvement of anything even remotely along the lines of a 'bad' emotion/thought that negates the choice of white grapes.
It can be necessary to process a lot of fear by allowing unconditional acceptance of all emotions before we can get really clear about what we are really feeling - so discussing these issues is always complex.
There is nothing wrong with fear. It is not a Bad thing.
But if we base our actions on (irrational) fears, that's when bad things usually happen.
This can be avoided by increasing our ability to love.
I agree that fear is a problem, I am just wanting to clarify that dislike does not require fear ;)
Sure can live with that :)
I can only repeat: it all depends on definitions and models.
We argued the one closest to indifference and furthest from outright hatred. There won't be much fear to be found besides maybe a learned caution or suspicion. When we move closer to hatred, however, it will be much harder to argue that there is no fear involved ;) Love!