Hello,
me again. I had an idea.

There is nothing stopping you from having two Steemit accounts - one for work, one for personal.

So how about you have one account where you promote your work. you can do as much 'Not safe for men with heart conditions' as you like, doing what you are doing now.

Then you can have another account that is all about you, where you get to talk about music, your son, hopes, dreams, aspirations etc.

That way those who don't want to engage with you about porn can engage with you as a person, a mother, a Steemian ;-)

I think it quite possible that once they get to know you as you and not as a porn star, they might just be surprised ow much they like you.

You never know, you may even get me to follow you :-)