Dealing With The Unbeatable Facts Of Life

in #life7 years ago (edited)



Don't Bother About It


I think the biggest fortunes of life are generated by the attitude of 'always moving forward', not in a literal sense, as rule of thumb.

We can't go back until we invent a time machine, but sadly we will probably never see that. Life is cruel in this regard. It doesn't allow for compromise, we simply have to deal with what we have at our disposal, no matter how much we dislike the outcome of things.

But yet inside each of us there is a child who refuses to accept these facts. That child is probably the strongest part of our identity, yet has the least authority... In a way I think we all are a bit two-sided, two-faced, dishonest, because we have realized that our childishness must suffer defeat, and even though we feel like crap, we tend to drag ourselves along. Because facts don't argue, they are just there – in your face, irregardless.





Facts Hurt


No matter who you are, or where you're from, we all have to share many facts that just sucks. Facts that hurt us so bad that we literally break internally. But then there is another part of us, which knows that after this hit, another will soon strike us, and it will have no mercy.

So moving forwards is really the best defense. Because when we dwell in hurtful facts we are looking backwards, and there ain't no going back. And remaining in the same place will only make these facts turn into stones, and these stones turn into to rocks, which later turn into walls, and eventually we find ourselves living in a dark vault...

So never remain with the facts. Keep them in your pocket, and don't look at them – they may hurt you, but only you can let them destroy you. Just move forward.

And yes, one of these facts are that we have to wait until 2019 before the next season of GoT, and yes it sucks.

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I fully agree, we have to look forward, continue into the future. The history can not be changed, we can only learn from past experiences. Sometimes (or even more then sometimes) music can provide some (or more) relief. Music may help us to forget the facts of the past and the now, and give new energy to deal with the facts as well as the future.

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