Quick Update and Wishing Everyone A Belated Happy New Year

in #life7 years ago

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Hey all. Apologies for not being around and posting much over the last few months. As some of you know my grandmother has been very ill.

A few months ago she went overnight from being active and independent to being bedbound (due to a suspected stroke).

For weeks my little brother (who is also a GP trainee) and I struggled to get help for her (as most of the rest of my family were in different parts of the country at the time).

There were all sorts of problems with getting professionals to take her case seriously because she is elderly. It also coincided with one of the busiest autumn and winter seasons in the history of the NHS.

Anyway I could write a whole book on that debacle.

Since then she has had multiple bouts of pneumonia, meningitis and at least two further strokes with periods in and out of ITU.

This has been really difficult and I have been doing my best to support my mother and the rest of my family as they try to spend as much time with her as they can.

My mother has her own problems with severe osteoarthritis which makes it quite difficult for her to drive.

Family must always come first and I think you can probably understand why I have not really felt like posting about medical topics right now.

It just feels too close to home.

That does not mean I have not kept up with Steemit. I can't read as much as before (my eyes just aren't good enough for long posts on a phone screen) but I do try to keep up with the news.

I was very pleased to see Steem and Steemit getting more of the attention they deserve and it is good to see the platform continuing to improve its interface.

The increase in price has been really nice to see as well and will help to pay for some of the extensive rehabilition and care my grandmother will need once she is stable - unfortunately the NHS isn't really good at providing this (particularly for elderly people).

Personally I think the NHS is institutionally ageist (I may talk about this at some point but that is for another time).

I wanted to say thanks all my Steemit friends who have given me their good wishes and support.

A belated Happy New Year to all of you and hopefully this year will be better for all of us.

None of us know how long we have. All we can do is make the most of now.

Make sure you check in on your elderly relatives and make the most of them while they are with you.

I will try to post when I can but will apologise in advance if it is a while and also if I'm not able to respond to comments. If you need to get hold of me the best way is probably via twitter message or in the chat.

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All the best to you and your family in this very tough time. I appreciate you posting even though it's probably one of the last things you want to do. Thank you.

Thanks.

So finally after all this months of waiting, I finally saw your writing
And wasn't a good one to read
So sorry about all that has happened
So glad to have you back

Well hopefully things will improve from now. Thank you.

Sorry for your granny's ill health it is very stressful to be such a condition taking care of an old person

My Dad is dying so I know what you're going through!

I hope that things soon improve for your grandmother and the rest of your family.

Spend this time with your family and yell out if you need anything. We'll be here when you come back.

Thanks. I'm sorry to hear of your situation. Yes family must come first.

Happy New Year have a good time ahead :)

I'm sorry to hear about your grandmother's health issues. I wish you lots of strenght to deal with them and I hope you'll still have a lot of time with her. Hopefully the year will only get better for you!

Thank you.

Sorry to hear of all this @thecryptofiend. You and your family are in my thoughts. Take care of family and yourself. Your friends here on Steemit will be here when you’re back.❤️

Thanks mate. Nice to hear from you:)

nothing can be as valuable as our family...you are doing the right thing......we are brought up with care and love by them so its our turn to prove our love for elderly family members........wishing your grandma a swift recovery and health....

Sorry to hear that... Hopefully everything will turn out great for your grandmother. And wishing you a beautiful new year as well! :)

Thanks she seems to be stable now but it will be a long recovery if she does get better.

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