Hello Wofford, wondered if you were still swimming around. What you need to do is stop chasing around Whales for awhile and get some shark friends ready to fend off this would be shyster, there's all the markings of "if it sounds to good to be true then it probably is" going on here. This woman needs help not encouragement. This man has intentions of dumping her but I doubt it will be in a nursing home.