Hello, Steemit Friends

You can lead yourself to a dream life.

If you take a look at your life do you like what you see?

Maybe you are at that point in life where you feel you are completely off track. You may be overwhelmed, tired with life, disgusted, Indecisive and you feel you need a new start at life.

Don’t fret, we all face this at some point .

We have all been there and some of us choose to rise above our circumstances no matter how bad the situation seemed then. While there is no magic formula to live your dream life, here are a few tips that have helped me in the past to get my mojo back.

Be Honest With Yourself

It’s scary to admit that you are in a bad place but this is the first step towards rising above your circumstances. Look critically at your situation and if you need help admit it to yourself. Look out for people who can assist you to be better. Be real with what you want to do with your life and the dreams you hope to achieve. No matter how crazy the dream might seem it exists in your mind and heart to be achieved.

Being honest with yourself and what you want provides you with unparalleled direction and ability. it allows you to use
the most powerful tool that is misused today: the ability to say no. next time you are faced with a bright opportunity you will ask yourself if that is what you really want if it is not no matter how much other people encourage you to take it you will be able to move on.

Seek Information That Can Help You Achieve Your Dream

You don’t have to guess on how you can achieve your dream. In today’s information age you can easily get information from the internet on what it would take for your dream to be a reality. Chances are there are people who have achieved the same dream and mapped the way for you.
If you can find someone to mentor you the better, but even if you don’t, research it online you will find the answers.

Challenge Adversity

For years I didn't know what I wants to do in life but I always convinced myself that I would never be successful in in something. Day in, day out I arrived at my work-place and miserably counted the hours until evening wishing for something different.

Most of us are like that convincing ourselves that it’s too hard to do what we dream of so we choose a life of mediocrity. However, none of us deserves such a life and most of what we fear is only on our minds. Make a plan and implement it to reach your goal. You will find that it will be much easier to go after your dream especially if you are passionate about it. You only got one life to live so go on and live it to the fullest. Remember all dreams are achieved outside the comfort zone.

Ignore The Negatives

In your journey to be an achiever, you will meet people who will discourage you, you will be in doubt, fear and sometimes you will feel like you are aiming too high. If you listen to these negatives you might give up.

When I compared myself to others and felt that I was not making progress, this would discourage me often and I would not give my passion my alone day I shared this with a friend, The advance I got was; I should always remember that I might not be where I want to be but I am definitely not where I was when I started.

Celebrate the small goals and focus on positivity in your journey. If you fail don’t quit, we know so many successful people who never made it the first time. Keep going and surround yourself with positive people.

Define The Terms Of The Game

The definition of success is not static. For some, success is more power, money or influence but each one of us has their worldview of success. For instance as a daughter of my being successful is being there for my parents. I want to. E there for my family . I am passionate about my family and this passion makes me jump from my bed each morning.

In the same manner success to you might not be a grand idea but if you find your path in life and follow it, that’s success in itself. Do not be intimidated when the world judges you because you gave up money, power or other things that others view as symbols of success to follow your path. Remember it’s your life, set the terms of the game.

Focus On Good Habits

Sometimes what steals our happiness are not the people around us or lack of resources but bad habits. If you have ever had a bad habit you know it can be hard to shake one off. However, if you want to be successful you will need to get rid of bad habits.

Work on forming a good habit and surround yourself with people who will motivate you to stick to the good habits. Practice makes perfect so keep practicing the good habits and within no time they will be routine.

It's a long journey on this life of ours. As long as we don't stop and give up, there's always room to grow and achieve something. Don't stop dreaming my fellow Steemian !!! Aim for the moon!!.

I hope you enjoy my post as always !!

Your Comments, upvotes are share are always appreciated.

Much Love, Suzana